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Thursday, December 6, 2007

...in Transit once again...

Its 7AM at Hong Kong airport and I am sitting here quite alone (literally!) at my gate waiting for my 1015AM flight. How long have I been waiting - oh abt 2 hours! Thank goodness for free Wi-Fi!! C is right - all things worth having should always be free.. love Google for that! - ok that was going on tangent... back at the Cathay Pacific gate watching the light come up over Hong Kong. I see shadows that may possibly be mountains or just buildings hidden under fog. I am absolutely starving! I could go wandering through the airport to find some eats but - just too lazy. Figure I will just distract myself being online talking to Sheetz and writing on blog or listening to Proust. C downloaded How Proust Can Change Your Life in my Nano - so instead of reading a book, I am to improve my listening skills and learn about Proust through a book on tape. I am looking forward to it - the experience - I realized I am not too good of a listener. My mind tends to wander if I am involved in topics I have no interest in - its really terrible - I hear but not really register or listen. So, most of the time I must have a vacant glazed look or something around people! I now see the advantage of having a good partner and balanced relationship where we help each other become better as people or improve our selves.

Apologies for another tangent. Back in Hong Kong airport... the shadows have turned out to be or at least look like from where I am - a hill/mountain of some sort - probably at some distance off. I think i will go hunt for some grub after all...next stop following a 16+hr journey - JFK aitport, NY.

wait - I actually glimpsed the bright orange ball lighting the morning sky light tangerine - Its playing a fun game of hide-n-seek with those marshmallow clouds!

Thursday, October 18, 2007

Creating new blog...

I am debating on creating a whole new blog on just cooking ideas, recipes and experiments. It will host only food related blogs. Let's see what happens. Right now I have a hard enough time coming up with writing anything at all! But I am always whipping something up in the kitchen...

Fruit Desserts

For Eid I ended up making 3 fruit dishes. Why? I over estimated and had a surplus of fruits so had to do something with it.

Main - Leche de Fruit (ok - i made it up-- have a better idea?)

Combination of soft and hard fruits cut to bite size pieces.
I used: red apples, bananas, starfruit, guava, pineapple

fresh grated coconut shavings
Can of sweetened condensed milk

In a large decorative platter make a thin layer of coconut shavings. Dunk all the fruit in the condensed milk and make layers of fruits and top it all with coconut shavings. The starfruits looked so pretty that I had small toothpicks inserted and the pieces standing like stars around the dish. The kids loved it =)

Fruits 2:

Mix of fruits sprinkled with sugar, garam masala and black salt. I had put it inside a emptied watermelon turned into a bowl.

Fruits 3:

Mix of fruits with salt and kasondi. Kasondi is a mustard seed concoction. It was a nice kick of spicy and and sweet. Kasondi is like a preserve so it keeps if fresh hard fruits.

Eid in Dhaka

Eid in Dhaka and with C and his family was completely a different experience for me. I haven't celebrated Eid in its true sense in many years. This year – we started the festivities off with a Mendhi Night with all the women in the family. C hired two mendhi artists so that everyone could relax and enjoy. I made food to keep all full. It was a hit. Everyone had the hands adorned with mendhi for Eid. Games were played and general good time. Our first “party” was a success. I have always wanted to have such a party and in Dhaka it was possible. The food was a spread of Indian, western and Bangladeshi food – a lil something unique for the palate – a welcome change from the month of pakoras and haleem of Ramadaan. Maybe it will become a tradition for us?!

Food:
Fresh fruit with condensed milk and fresh coconut
Fresh fruit with mustard dressing (served in decorative watermelon)
Fresh fruit chaat w/ black salt (also served in decorative watermelon)
Deviled Eggs
Fresh chutney sandwich
Ground beef kababs
Potato Tikkis (kababs)
Chips with homemade salsa
Fresh watermelon juice cocktail

Yes - a lot of fruit - just ended up overestimating and had to do something with the surplus!

Recipes and Pics are going to be posted soon.

Rainy Day

Its a gray, wet and rainy day in Dhaka. I sat down after almost 10 days of no writing. I had a head full of ideas on what to write from the excitement of Eid in Dhaka to other mini adventures. But, here I am, with nothing to write. Kind of seems pointless. I started this blog, as a online diary, to keep in touch and friends posted on my life away from NY but who has the time to actually read blogs? Unless you are an active part on the online community, why would one read this? To be fair, a few friends read up on my day to day boring stuff. My life has become dull! No amount of creative writing is going to make it any more exciting. For the first time I have a very long period of no activity. Oh, there are things to keep me busy... but nothing to write home about, literally =)

I guess I'll post a couple of recipes and maybe some reviews.

Saturday, October 6, 2007

Sooner than expected

I had expected the whole citizenship process to take upto a year - from my brother's experience - but turns out that USCIS has become increasingly efficient. Who would have figured that!! I applied for citizenship in April (finally after delaying for years). Everyone advised it would be 6 mons before they call me for finger printing - mmm - they called me in 1.5 mons later!! Then I was advised it would most likely take until February 2008 to get called in for an interview/oath - so i had made plans accordingly. I came to Dhaka and expected to return to NY by mid-Jan before my 6 mon was up and stay until I was finished with the interview process and catch my friends wedding too.

All plans out the window - got a letter asking me to an interview on Dec. 19 - thats 8 mons for those keeping track! So, I am back in NY for couple weeks in Dec to become an Am citizen =) A lot sooner than the 1 yr that was predicted/advised!

C and I

Over the past few weeks - somehow C and I seem to be on a weekly date! Its nice to get out and spend time - who says you can't date after marriage!!!

We went on a date on Fri - we started the evening off with playing pool! Usually not a respectable place for a woman - we went early and booked a table - only 2 other tables were being played. C ended up winning all 3 games we play =( but I learned a lot of tips from him. We are determined to have a pool table and table tennis table in our home! By the time we were getting tired, it had been 2 hours. So about 9pm. We hailed a rick and went to a mexican restaurant (it actually is pretty authentic!!). I ordered a burrito that was way toooo spicy but the nachos were yummy. C ordered a honey bbq chicken that was perfect proportion vs. american giant portions. C's cuz joined us and we drove to get some ice cream where we ran into a friend of theirs. After some chit chat and laughs, we came home - 11:30pm. Now - my stomach was upset =( argh!

Its nice to be able to go on a date with your husband - we get talk about things that otherwise maybe we wouldn't. and always an excuse for some extra romance =)

Life of Emile Zola

The film about the life of French writer is a definite must see for all. Why? You learn so much!! He was a man that stood his ground on portraying the world as he saw it. He was a naturalist writer (?). He lived in poverty - he wrote about - without any romanticism - about society from the perspective of the poor. He questioned the society around them by exposing the hypocrisies of daily life. He stood up against the government and demanded he have the rights entitled to him. He fought with his pen and words against the entire French army during a time that the people could see no flaws in the army and its government.

It is an inspiring film - makes you get off your bum and affect a change in the world around you.

I am reading his first book - Nana - its provocative story about the life of a Parisian prostitute pre WWII. It was considered blasphemous and disgusting during its time. The story is an analogy to so much more - a social commentary. If you have a chance - pick it up.

Nana: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nana_(novel)
Emile Zola: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C3%89mile_Zola

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Ugly

Today I feel Ugly! My face is dried out despite moisturizing and its getting these spots on my cheeks and not to mention acne all over lower part of the face - especially my chin. i have never has Soooo much acne to deal with!! WTF is going on?????? and my hair - another fiasco - its gotten even curlier if that is possible! Its impossible to put brush or comb for fear of having an birds nest like afro! Its frizzy and all over the place. What am I doing wrong? I wash my hair every two days cause it so hot and dry here. And --- my hair is falling out!! Every time I pull my hand through it - fistfuls of hair come out... what do I do?? Argh!!

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

Mistress of Spices

On our weekly date - C and I usually pic up 5-6 dvds - split between what each of us wants to watch. Usually a sprinkling of sci-fi, bollywood, asian, documentary and action. I wanted to pick up Mistress of Spices last time but the book wasn't that good and C gave me one of his "r u serious!?" looks that I retracted from it. I was just curious what the movie was like with Aishwarya Rai and Dylann McDermott. Lo' and behold - the very next day on Star Movies - what do i see when i flip through - aha! "Mistress of Spices"!

The movie is terrible in my opinion. It was just poorly written script. There were elements in the book that made it a fantasy but those elements were removed in the movie. First and foremost - the main character, Tilo comes to us in guise of an old woman, wrinkly and all. But, inside she is a young woman. As mistress of spices, that is the mask she must wear and give up all personal lust/needs. In the film - Ash is her regular Ash self - albeit they kept her in fashionable cotton saris with a single plait an a supposed look of indian conservatism.

There is a point in the book that she uses the spices power for herself to turn her into a young woman - and the love of Doug (McDermott) is supposed to recognize (and love her) despite her physical change. In the film - she has a friend help her transform into a bollywood Ash - with halter top red blouse and sheer red sari, fancy make-up and hair open. Ugh! The whole mystical, magical and fantasy of the book is completely lost!!

Don't bother to see it - unless you are just curious to see a bad film. Another attempt by Ash to do a Hollywood-y flick!

Monday, October 1, 2007

Sniffles

I went out yesterday to run some errands - buying ceiling fans, lights, etc. - for the new apt. At the market - it just started pouring! I came home with a tickle in my throat. Last night I went to bed with sweat pants and my long sleeved high school t-shirt (most comfy shirt ever!) and whaddaya know - I wake up with really tickly throat and sniffles galore =(

Argh!! Ever since I got here, its like I am destined to get sick! I hardly come here during this time of the year - possibly the weather - it rains randomly. Temp is usually 88-9o degrees. But we stay in A/C most of the day. I dunno what it is - any advice on boosting immune system? I can't bear to drink any haldi/milk concoctions!!

SiCKO

C and I finally watched Michael Moore's "Sicko" the other day and it just made us go "hmmm.."
If you haven't watched it - well, you should. It points out how most of the nations in the world can manage to have universal healthcare but US being one of the richest nations cannot have healthcare to take care of its poor, elderly and sick. There are many arguments against socialized medical - one of them being that one will not receive the best medical treatment if its government run. Hmmm - maybe thats only an issue in the US. Our firefighter, police, libraries are government run and we still receive adequate service (depending on your demographics).

In UK there is even doctors that are on call to come to the sick at home! That would be unheard of nowadays. I remember when my little brother was struck with chicken pox and my father was away with the car and my mother had no means of transportation. It would have been a great service to be able to call a doctor at home to check on his high temperature, don't you think? Instead of calling an ambulance (which cost a pretty penny once u get the bill) and having him stay at the hospital (which, at the time even with insurance, practically was impossible for us to pay).

I haven't had medical insurance since - well, college where it was included as part of our tuition. Why? I have been working as a consultant and the agency I work for offered benefits, but it covered so little and my deductible was so much that it just wasn't worth it. It was better for me to pay cash to see the doctors just to avoid all the headaches and hassles of paperwork! But heck - I still paid a lot of taxes. Now - if I had universal healthcare - then add another tax and take out of paycheck if that means if I am sick i don't have to be tense about seeing the doctor and worrying about bills.

I am babbling yes - but its an issue the US really needs to fix - why can other nations provide free education and healthcare but the US claims to not be able to do it - but instead spend zillions in a war that most of the nation is against? Is that democracy?

Interesting fact that my little brother (well he is 16) relayed to me - How many countries allow/is it legal for pharmaceuticals to directly advertise to consumers? Answer: 2 (US & New Zealand). I found that interesting. I detest the ads. Only doctors should recommend any medications. A person without medical background is illiterate to diagnose themselves for an illness! Symptoms can be the same for many different diagnosis.

There is one ad that I detest - its an otc painkiller - the ad shows a person exhausted - muscle aches from playing with their kids, headaches from work stress, backaches from working - the answer - take this pain killer and resume your life! WHAT!! If the body is in pain - that means - slow down! Give it a break, rest! Be a healthy human being rather than drugging your body and pushing it beyond its capabilities!! Shouldn't the government be taking care of its citizens, making sure they are healthy?

I can go on and on with the gripes I have - When I remember these things - that my education debt will take forever to pay off, my credit sucks cause I haven't been able to pay off some medical bills, that having debt is a part of life in the US - it just makes me happy that C and I moved out. Medical care here is really just as good if not better cause doctors listen and then take care of you. The treatments I have received so far has cost far less ($500 vs. $50) with the same equipment and better service. I was able to take care of a dental problem - a root canal and cap - here in Dhaka for far less ($5,000 vs, $500).

C and I are debating - once we are done in Dhaka, maybe we will move to France. Hmmm - according to "SiCKO" the french gov't sends a nanny to help new moms!

Time to start learning some French with my free time!!

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Thursday, September 27, 2007

Confessions

Some things you cannot relate to unless you actually do experience it. Over the last several weeks I have gone through a difficult time. It made me realize a lot about myself. Most importantly - to apologize for judging people. Things happen in peoples lives that we never expect or dream that we will have to confront or deal with. In those situation our morals and ethic - the fiber of who we are - are tested. I humbly apologize to those who I judged for being hypocrites. I have misunderstood that some things are bigger than our lives and our beliefs and often out of our control all together. Some things are sacrificed for a greater good. Whatever it may be - i solemnly vow to just be understanding and non-judgmental towards people. Compassion is difficult trait to master but it is very necessary for people. I am lucky to have a compassionate partner in life and friends. I hope I can re-pay their friendship in equal.

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Whew!

I needed a new start.. a fresh look so, I revamped this blog! Its been 3 days in the making and C has been an active participant. He has taught me coding and I actually managed to re-design the site using only coding!! So, Tada!! Here it is! New stuff all over and there will be more stuff added - like cooking links (measurements/easy recipes), best seller lists and the latest books out, interesting places to travel to and simple musings that make everyday fun!

So, I am going to pledge to be more active on the blogging thing and try not to fall off the earth again!

Let me know what u think! Ciao!
(I am starving!)

Monday, September 24, 2007

Tomato Chicken with Bell Peppers and Raw Bananas

We had a serious surplus of small green raw bananas after C's aunt sent over 2 batches over 1 week! I had never cooked or had raw bananas and it sat for another week till I was forced to figure out what to do with it. Our cook/servant only knew of using them in fish curries and I am not fond of buying fish (a lil scared!) so - we had to get creative. So one night we cooked it with beef curry and replaced potatoes with the bananas. The next day we boiled it a bit and then cut them like fries and cooked them like fries as a snack - realized it can be cooked like potatoes! Apparently 1 raw banana is equivalent to 1 potato in starch/carbs.

We had a half a big bell pepper left over and before it spoiled I wanted to use it up. But when he went to cut it - it was already half spoiled! So we had only a few pieces of bell peppers - hardly enough for even 1/4 of a chicken! Looked around - and aha! the dang raw bananas!! Cut them into little pieces and added them to the pile - wallah! Enough base for a good curry.

So here goes me experiment - brahahaha! It started off as a recipe I saw online but by the time I was cooking it - it became something quite different!

You need...
Chicken - cut into bite size marinate in 1 tsp salt
Bell pepper - 1 is enough for 1/2 chicken
Raw Banana - I used about 4 - these are small
2 Tomatoes or canned tomato puree will work
Onion, Garlic, ginger pastes (mixed about 3-4 table spoons)
Garam Masala - 1 tsp
Red Chili powder
Fresh green chili - split lengthwise on top
Sugar
Salt
Oil
Fresh Coriander leaves
Bay leaf
Cinnamon stick
Tomato Ketchup 1-2 tsp (optional for a sweet/sour taste)

Prep time: efficient kitchen and quick chopping will take no time at all =)
Cook time: 15-20mins

Heat some oil in pan. Fry the banana, green chili and bell pepper. Take out and put aside - try not to overcook it.

In a blender, make a tomato puree. Take tomato or tomato puree, 2-3 cloves of garlic, pinch of salt, red chili powder and ketchup. Put aside.

In same oil put the pastes (onion, garlic, ginger) and fry till the oil rises to top. Put in the cleaned chicken pieces and fry for a bit. Pour in the puree and toss. Add the garam masala, a bit of salt, sugar. Let it boil for a few minutes. Put in the bananas and let it simmer. In 5 minutes put in the peppers and green chili so its still a bit crunchy.

Taste to see if it needs more sugar or salt. If its strong taste - add sugar to tone down and even the taste. It should be spicy, little sour and a little sweet and will smell and taste like chinese =)

Serve with fresh coriander sprinkled on top. It will look a nice reddish curry with green peppers/coriander and white-ish chicken.

Its a crazy concoction but it tasted surprisingly good with some rice! Btw - it isn't necessary to add the bananas - I added them cause I had so much to get rid off!

Peanut Butter Balls

C wanted something sweet after dinner the other night and for once there was nothing in the house-- being it was 11pm - no stores to go buy smth either - so the next day i went hunting for some recipes and came across this easy yummy recipe and decided to make a batch and always have in the fridge for that sudden sweet tooth craving!

You need...
Peanut butter
Sugar
powdered milk (optional)
Cinnamon(Optional)
Chocolate shavings of ur choice (optional)

In a bowl mix all ingredients to form a firm dough ball of the peanut butter. Taste along the way for sweetness that you like. Then take tiny bits and form little balls - I make little bite size about size of malt balls. Then roll them in some powdered sugar and cinnamon mix to seal and stick them in a box and into the fridge. Pop one whenever you feel like one =)

Note of Caution: pop sparingly - unless you want to start looking like a ball!

Feeling Energetic...

...for a little while. I got all ready to go out in the afternoon and then decided to check email before stepping out... giving the sun a chance to cool down. Well, I got stuck. I ended up getting inspired to change my whole blog page! Before I knew it - 3 hours had passed and C had already come home from work! (Ramadaan working days are shorter so he comes home by 3.30-4.00 PM - Yipee!) We go out for a bit and check out a training center where they teach you cool things like Batik work and block and screen printing. Then we walked to Almas general store and picked up some chocolate for both our midnight sweet tooths - Cadbury milk chocolates and Snicker bars (more his then mine ;) Then we passed by the regular Iftaar stands and I had a craving for some Haleem (yuum!!!!) So we picked some up - crossed the road dodging speeding buses, manic cars and wobbly rickshaws and came home. The Haleem was the best I have had yet!! I was still feeling antsy so I decided to make some more peanut butter balls since we were running out. C fell asleep - so he has been taking a nap and I went back to work on updating my blog interface.

Before I knew it - it was 9.30 - yikes and no dinner ready yet!! Luckily C still sleeping - Alom (our servant) and I improvise in the kitchen with some leftovers and out comes a Chinesey chicken dish with green bell peppers, tomato sauce and raw bananas! (Don't worry - the recipes for both will be up soon!!)

So, now I am quite content and a bit tired - so going to go wake up C, eat dinner and pass out. Time now: 10:15 pm.

Thursday, September 6, 2007

Fun stuff

After days of doing nothing - i finally found something fun to do. Cal hooked my laptop to download my videos so I have been using the editing software to edit my films! I just started few days ago - and so far worked on a short video for Ava Noor (my sister-in-law's niece who is the cutest lil baby) and then I started on my the footage of my students dancing at this years Lotus show. Currently I am working on Rang de Nila footage to put up for view. Rang de Nila stuff will have a professional working on it but i am working on just a simple version to have up while he finds time on his schedule to start the editing. Its a lot of fun! To cut and paste music, split images and sew them together! I will post them up on my website most likely once I find internet with speed enough to upload!

Other fun stuff has been the new apt. Today we took measurements and I went to some furniture stores to check out prices and window shopping. i totally miss US stuff - nothing here exactly fits my taste - but as they say - when in Rome... - so i picked out a color scheme to paint the walls with and Saturday will go out the blocks to imprint on the walls. I'll send pics as it progresses.

Mi Casa es...

Its been about a month and a half since being in dhaka now. The political unrest is a little bit under control.

From what I understand - the riots were started by the political parties taking an opportunity to bring down the military in the eyes of the people. The two ruling parties has been like a feuding family for the last 20 years or so. They were the sole causes on unrest in the city as they tried to one-up the other. So, it seems when the students stood up against the army to step off the campus grounds - the two parties paid off a few 100 students to star a city wide riot to demonstrate the ineptness of the current army government. But the reality is - the army not only complied but also took it further by calling a gearing so the students had a floor to speak about the situation. When curfew and city shutdown was announced to stop the riots - the parties went nuts. They played their old tricks of calling out to the "west" and asking for the return of democracy and save the country from military control. The military, meanwhile, has been working better for the people than ever before to maintain peace and bringing justice so the common people can feel safe. Granted - the military gv't has its own set of issues but politics isn't perfect. When the so called "democratic" parties were in place - Bangladesh was ranked the world's #1 corrupt country! Now, under military gov't there is voter registration - photo and thumb print ID - in place so the election being held in Dec 2008 will be a fair and just election. The leaders of the parties and families are in jail or in exile. People seriously hope that the 2008 election brings about a fair and just gov't in place and run it with the people in mind rather than for personal power and greed. Most people have lost hope - it is common to hear - "eh, nothings going to change" but there are few hopefuls that are holding out thankfully.

Recipe for Fried Eggplant

This eggplant dish is one of my favorites.

Spices needed

Salt
Turmeric
Oil

optional
onion/garlic/cumin/coriander paste

Cut the eggplant into thick slices about 1/2 in thick. Make paste with few drops of water, turmeric, salt (add the optional paste if you want) and mix. Take the eggplant slices and coat both sides well. Heat up the oil in a fry pan. Once hot, place the eggplant slices in the oil. Turn down the heat and let it cook. Turning over midway to cook the other side. Its done when the eggplant is soft and falling apart in the middle a bit.

serve warm with rice or roti. its delicious!

Recipe: Sweet, Spicy, Sour Chicken Curry

I saw this recipe on TV the other night and tried out last night. Cal loved it. It gives a really unique taste to chicken curry... here goes the recipe.

You will need
Chicken - cut into pieces
Oil - for deep frying
Onion - chopped
Garlic - chopped
Ginger - chopped
Sour yogurt
Salt
Black Pepper
Chili Powder - adjust to your taste
Coriander powder - 1/2 tsp
Cumin powder - 1/2 tsp
Turmeric powder - 1 tsp
Bay leaf - 1 big
Cardamom - 2-3 pods
Cinnamon stick - half of 1
sugar
fresh chili and coriander

Clean chicken and cut to desired pieces. Marinate in salt and black pepper for abt 1/2 hr. Deep fry in oil just until it puffs up - it doesn't have to fully cook. Put aside for later. In the oil cook the onion, garlic and ginger till onions are transparent. Put in all the spices - adjust to your taste. Stir and cook the spices for a bit then put in the chicken and mix in with the spices. Pour water or chicken stock to cook the chicken in - cover and let simmer. Mix in sugar and salt into yogurt to your taste of how sour you want. Pour in the yogurt once the water is boiling. Stir well and cover and let simmer. Once the yogurt is cooked (it starts really soaked in the chicken) you have few options. You can adjust the sweet (add a bit more sugar), spicy (add a bit more chili powder) and sour (by adding sour yogurt).

option 1: mix in some green chili (split in half) and top it off with fresh coriander
option 2: mix in some almonds and cook for 2 more mins and serve with some almond slivers on top.
option 3: fry some onions till crispy and serve with it sprinkled on top.


Serve with fluffy white rice or parothas.

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Recipe for Tehari



Today is first time I cooked it...

You will need:
Mutton or beef
onion paste
garlic paste
ginger paste
(i usually cut up all 3 and just stick it in blender together to make paste)
Coriander (dhaniya) powder
Cumin (Jeera) powder
(if you have seed forms of both - roast in dry pan then put in blender to powder it)
Cardamom (elachi)
Cinnamon stick
Cloves
Black pepper
Red Chili powder
fresh green chili
Yougurt
Bay Leaves
Salt

Cut the meat into bite size pieces (remember they shrink so cut a lil bigger than bite size) and wash well. Mix in yogurt with all the spices except the rice and green chili - let it marinate for 1/2 hr. Let it simmer and boil till meat is tender and medium well done. While thats cooking, wash the pulao rice and drain the water out well. Using a cheese cloth works well. Pour some ghee in a separate pan and fry the dry rice until it takes on a darkish color. Once its thoroughly fried pour it in with the beef mixture. Stir well and pour some more warm water and tightly cover (don't let steam out) and let cook. Stir once in a while to make sure its not sticking to the bottom. Pour some ghee or warm water if it is too dried out. Serve warm with some salad.

I am not very good with measurements and never cook measuring out. I eyeball and guesstimate how much is required depending on quantity of what I am cooking. One onion = 3 gloves of garlic = abt 2 tablespoons of ginger paste. The salt, cumin and coriander powder really depends on your personal taste - I put more cumin in when cooking red meats as it gives a good flavor. So for a single portion it would require abt 1 tablespoon of jeera and 1/2 of cumin. you can adjust to fit your taste. For single portion it would take abt 3 pods of cardamom, 4 cloves and 1 one inch cinnamon stick.

I just had some from my first batch - its delicious!

Recipe for Halwa


Halwa

Depending on what flavor
Semolina (Suji)
Carrot
Chole
Green Papaya
anything can be made a halwa

Suji Halwa

Ghee (clarified Butter)
Cardamom pods/seeds
Dar Chini (Cinnamon sticks)
Sugar
Milk/Warm water

Pour some ghee (clarified butter) in a pan and heat. When its warm enough put in some elachi (cardamom seeds) and cinnamon sticks and let it warm and let flavor out. Then put in the semolina and fry it in the ghee. it should be a 3:1 ratio abt. it shouldn't soak in the ghee-the suji should be dry and frying in the ghee. fry and toss till it starts taking color. should be off-whiteish to reddish. Then pour in milk or warm slowly till it rolls into a pasty ball. It will start of crumbly. It needs to get to a cohesive smooth ball. Once it in a ball you can do 1 of two things. Leave as is in a bowl and mix in some raisin or almonds or cashews and serve warm or cool. Other option - lay it out in a flat dish and flatten halwa at desired thickness - usually 1/2 inch thick - when cool cut with knife into diagonals and stick a bit of raisin on top. or mix the whole thing with slivers of almonds/cashews and then cut into diagonals.

When doing Papaya or carrot - make into pulp by grating - then follow above instructions w/o using suji.

I am still learning - but thats how I made 1st batch...

Learning...

I am constantly learning new things! I thought I was familiar with living in Dhaka but hell - there is so much social responsibility that I may have a hard time assimilating! Tonight is shabebaraat - the praying of all night 15 days prior to beginning of Ramadaan. Well - the custom is each family sends out Halwa (mashed sweet) and bread or roti to other family/friends homes! So this morning we recived two plates of halwa from Cal's cousin and uncle with 4 diff types of halwa! I didn't know this and was made aware by my aunt. When i told her I didn't know how to make halwa she suggested I make Tehari instead and pass that around. Tehari is pulao rice and mutton/beef cooked together eaten with a fresh salad. I spoke to Cal about it and it made sense to us since all were making sweets we would send smth different. Well - it takes forever to cook enough for 20 people on 2 burners! I should have started last night but we started this morning and we are no where near done even cooking the first batch of meat and its already noon! I guess we will be passing out our food in the evening. We are planning on sending to 7 homes. Everyone sent us a little bit of food since how much food can 2-3 people eat... but we have to send double cause each house has min of 4 members and max of 7!

Its not only tedious but also expensive venture and its not the end. Sometime in the next 15 days I have to potato chops for Cal's office - thats abt 60 employees - so abt 120 chops! Then is Ramadaana nd occasionally we have to send food to one house or another and not to mention Eid after Ramadaan which means new clothes for our servants and gifts for family - like a sari for my grandmother and his oldest aunt, etc... Sheesh!!! When are we gonna end up buying our fridge, microwave, bedroom furniture for our apt - I don't know!

Ok enough bitching for one post! I should go check up on the cook to see what damage he is causing...

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

One day in Dhaka

its tuesday night and pretty blah day normally... Cal called out sick and i slept in till 1pm while he worked from home. after i woke up Alom (our cook/servant) had made lunch - he is pretty good at taking instructions and started to cook they way I like things - we had lunch and then bummed and watched TV. I put a load in the washing machine and Alom hand washed a few things and put all out to dry. Cal took a nap and then i sent Alom to do some bazaar - groceries. he came back a little jittery and scared... there have been riots in the area since yesterday and it escalated today. the riots are among the Univ students and the military. the main road/entrance is at the end of the road from us and the market/bazaar is there too. so he was afraid cause there were shots fired and mad rush and he thought he was getting stuck and managed to walk home safely. He came back and then headed out again in the other direction toward our other apartment to see about cleaning up and and checking the water and power situation. he comes back half an hour later... no work being done. so he started dinner... our kitchen window looks out on the street and tuesdays is the hawkers market day so the entire road in front of our house is closed for the street hawkers. he runs into the living room excited and asks us to look out the window.. there was a mad rush of rickshaws zooming past - never seen them drive so fast - and the hawkers just picking up their stuff and running. apparently the riots had gotten to the head of our road. then 5 mins later we hear blasts and see an army truck rolling past. they were exploding tear gas and our street was filled. the kitchen window was the only one open and alom heard it first. Cal and I tried to run to the roof but the door was locked. we come back to the apt and alom is stumbling in from the kitchen... the tear gas smoke had filled our kitchen and bedroom. he was in pain. we made him wash his eyes out and he was fine but excited. he ran downstairs to see more action but the streets were cleared out and gas everywhere. i got some in my eyes when i tried to go into the bedroom. the streets were deserted. we turned on news and it said the riots had moved to the main street on the other side of us. we could still hear the gas bombs going off. we are safe in our house... no one would dare come in and we have like 2 guards at the gate. so I was greatful that Cal didn't go to work cause the news showed that all cars were stuck on the main roads and then abandoned as the riots started and the cars and buses were broken by the students. If Cal had gone to work he would have had to walk home and I would have been worried sick. so now everything is calm on our street - although deserted too early for the day - riots are still happening. we are about to eat dinner... i made some sweet chicken curry, cabbage n peas, aloo bharta, green banana/plantain bharta and daal. and watching some bad movies on HBO.

We get HBO and other channels- never miss out on the shows Entourage, movies, Friends, scrubs, desperate housewives.. we get them all... so thats a day in the life of Ish - the housewife. Cal is encouraging me to try all the things I wouldn't have if I was still in NY so - going art supply shopping and getting clay and going to try my hand at a piece I have been imagining for months.

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Being Mrs.Jahan...

Since being back in dhaka - every evening we have had a dinner invitation from some family member of Cal's. Then my cousin Rupom got married so more dinners and my aunts and nani (mom's mom) send over food. I have cooked dinner maybe 2x so far. At every event i have to wear a sari - where it used to take me 1/2hr to get dressed and out now takes abt 1 1/2hrs! but i am slowly becoming an expert and wrapping a sari quickly and well =)

i have been sick since last week. it started with sore throat then escalated to full blown fever of 103 and up for 2 days. Poor Cal didn't sleep much - stayed up all night taking care of me and went into work half days wile i slept in the afternoon. went to see the doctor - luckily he dislikes prescribing meds as much as i dislike taking them. he gave me something for the nausea so i could eat and nasal spray so i could breathe. i know have a hacking cough that sounds like my lungs are gonna pop out! and today was 1st day i could stomach any food... i had to make a plain chicken salad w no signs of masala!

Cal retained his dad's servant for a while. so he does the cleaning and laundry and the cooking - i just supervise it all.i have to hire a cook that can just create the days food w/o asking me! Everyday, 3x a day = "Apu, what do i cook for lunch/dinner/evening snack?" and grocery isn't just going to the grocery store and picking up what u had in mind - i send him to the bazaar! and they only sell seasonal produce - which is great but i have yet to figure out what that is!! i can go to the grocery store but, its not worth i for everyday shopping.

life of a housewife is pretty damn boring! most exciting thing i have done is handmade a wedding gift card/envelope for my cuz - it came out pretty damn cool - and learn how to make aloo kababs. Cal wants me to rest and rest till i am all rested out and learn to take a decent pace in life b4 allowing me to jump on projects. we have to work on the new apt so that'll keep me busy for some time too. putting dance and stuff on hold cause its just too damn hot to dance and with rainy season, i can't go out much anyway.

btw- where we live is not flooded. when news show footage - they show the outskirts and the worst rural parts of the country. monsoon season is always an issue and this time isn't any different. flooding = lack of clean drinking water = diseases = lots of people ill. where we are, rarely flooding occurs, we have our own source of water that isn't polluted. so - most people in the middle to upper class are perfectly fine and not affected by flooding. as always, its the poorest thats the worst stricken.

Saturday, April 7, 2007

The Development Set by Ross Coggins

My fiance passed this to me..its amusing!

http://www.geocities.com/shores_system/development_set.html

The Development Set
by Ross Coggins

"Adult Education and Development" September 1976

Excuse me, friends, I must catch my jet
I'm off to join the Development Set;
My bags are packed, and I've had all my shots
I have traveller's checks and pills for the trots!


The Development Set is bright and noble
Our thoughts are deep and our vision global;
Although we move with the better classes
Our thoughts are always with the masses.


In Sheraton Hotels in scattered nations
We damn multi-national corporations;
injustice seems easy to protest
In such seething hotbeds of social rest.


We discuss malnutrition over steaks
And plan hunger talks during coffee breaks.
Whether Asian floods or African drought,
We face each issue with open mouth.


We bring in consultants whose circumlocution
Raises difficulties for every solution --
Thus guaranteeing continued good eating
By showing the need for another meeting.


The language of the Development Set
Stretches the English alphabet;
We use swell words like "epigenetic"
"Micro", "macro", and "logarithmetic"


It pleasures us to be esoteric --
It's so intellectually atmospheric!
And although establishments may be unmoved,
Our vocabularies are much improved.


When the talk gets deep and you're feeling numb,
You can keep your shame to a minimum:
To show that you, too, are intelligent
Smugly ask, "Is it really development?"


Or say, "That's fine in practice, but don't you see:
It doesn't work out in theory!"
A few may find this incomprehensible,
But most will admire you as deep and sensible.


Development set homes are extremely chic,
Full of carvings, curios, and draped with batik.
Eye-level photographs subtly assure
That your host is at home with the great and the poor.


Enough of these verses - on with the mission!
Our task is as broad as the human condition!
Just pray god the biblical promise is true:
The poor ye shall always have with you.

Thursday, April 5, 2007

Prince Charming...and a whole lot more ...



I have neglected my blog since my return But i have good reason. Too much has happened and it became too difficult to keep blogging and i didn't want people finding out through a blog rather than from me...


so, February 11, 2007, i met my Prince charming! I had quite come to conclusion before i embarked on my trip that I would never get married and would just enjoy life with one lover after another periodically. That is not to say that I didn't have a picture of my perfect partner in my mind and heart, just concluded that I was asking for too much and being a jaded New Yorker of sorts, it wouldn't happen to me. Well, I ate my words!


February 11, my friend -A- had invited me to join him on a day trip on a boat (launch) outside of Dhaka. After much deliberation, I agreed to go. It was an interesting mix of 9 people. Most were ex-pats, all were fascinating in their own right. We all hit it off and had a great time. One of the people on trip was A's cousin...Cal – or, he was introduced to me in his Bengali name – Shumon. It wasn't love at first sight by any means. But as the day went on, I was more and more drawn to conversation with him. Long story short, by February 14 – a few short days later, Cal and i had concluded that we were done and we were each others perfect counterparts! (for the longer story of our whirlwind romance, we are creating a site..will have it up soon :)


It felt as if the spirits had been looking over my shoulder carefully noting all my desires for a perfect mate for myself and when i was good and ready, presented him – Cal – right in front of me. All that was missing was a big red bow!!


On March 11, few days before my return to the US, Cal had proposed to me..and I, of course, accepted. And then I proposed to him!! - Yes, he accepted... :)


So, that is the latest and greatest news of my life right now...but it's also only the beginning...



i am an amazing cook! :P

last night, i came home at 10p and Ryan wanted dinner but american/european meal. so the chicken was defrosting and i had picked up some mushrooms on the way home as well as this green eggplant shaped squash...just wanted to try it. anyway..i had no clue what to make! i ransacked my mother's cabinets and came across soy sauce, balsamic vinegar, maggie seasonings and chicken abode marinade. Had fresh limes, tomatoes and broccoli. and put some potatoes to boil.

i marinaded the chicken in a mixture of all the liquids w dash of lime. cut up 1 and half purple onions. I sauteed half the onions in some oil and put the chicken in. let it cook a little bit then poured in all the marinade into the pan and covered to let it simmer. next i had to fig out what to do w mushrooms. ryan wanted a gravy. meanwhile i boiled broccoli and the squash and Ryan made the mashed potatoes with too much salt!

to make mushroom gravy i boiled a half cup of water and mixed in 1 heaping table spoon of all purpose flour and made a thick concoction. the chicken was done on 1 side and flipped to brown the other. Pulled it out and put in serving plate. the pan had oil, marinade and the remainder onions cooked in. i poured in the flour concoction and stirred w a whisk to get a nice consistency then put in the mushrooms and cooked for a bit. added a bit of lime juice to give a bit of tangy flavor. once that was thoroughly mixed and cooked, poured over the chicken. served the broccoli, squash and tomatoes suateed in olive oil and garlic -and mashed potatoes on the side.

my goodness. the chicken and mushrooms came out fantastic! i should just open a restaurant!!! seriously make my best meals unplanned n from bare fridge and cabinets!

Thursday, March 15, 2007

Thailand – What to do?

I got to Thailand on the 16th and saw Sup waiting at the airport. It was such a rush of excitement to see a friend. I have been without any of my close friends for too many days. So much had happened in my life leading up to the few days before I left that I was just bursting to share with Sup. We take a cab ride back to her place. She is staying in a serviced apartment in Silom. As soon as we get in, she pulls out a pack of smokes and a bottle of red wine and we sit down to chat. Hours pass by and we realize that we should go out for dinner before it’s too late. So we head out into heart of Silom. It is known for its red light district and bars and neon lights with “shows”. We walk and dodge through stalls of goods to buy – dresses, t-shirts, shoes, watches, lamps….you name it and its being sold at the footpath. And of course, the men pushing their bar “menus” in our faces to entice us to catch a “show”. We get to an outdoor bar called Beer Garden and as soon as we sit down, the DJ starts playing Bhangra music….Sup is ecstatic, she has been staying here almost 2 months and hadn’t heard desi music outside her apartment! So we enjoy the bhangra, order some stir fried something or other, another bottle of wine and we eat, drink and converse till we finish it all off. Most amusing – two Chinese travelers tried to pick us up at the bar. That was fun – we had never had an East Asian man try and pick us up!

Next morning we headed for a weekend at the beach to Pattaya. Its about 2 hours from Bangkok. We stayed at Jomtein beach. Since we were staying for one night and it was only 3 of us (Sup’s co-worker joined us), we stayed at a hostel type place. Now, I know what u are thinking but this place was not an European hostel. It was clean, with a pool and they had rooms with own bathrooms. Sup and I took a room with a private bath and two beds…it was very big, with a TV, hot water and a balcony that at one time looked out to the beach (building went up in front). Alma got a room with a shared bathroom but the room was a very decent size! Cost wise it was only like $12 each for the rooms.

We immediately headed to the beach and lay in the sun till the sun went down. I am so dark!! The water was really too dirty to go for a swim in but the beach was just fine to lay in. Food was no issue, we had service on the beach…it was a locals beach rather than a tourist so it was great to have some local food. We finally headed out and hunted a place to have dinner. We ended up at a nice big outdoor restaurant with live entertainment of traditional thai music and dance. I ordered a beef salad and sup ordered chicken green curry. When in Thailand, order cautiously! The salad was so spicy – the food is doused with the hottest red chili – that my mouth went numb with fire! A very unsatisfying meal! We headed back to Jomtein and stopped at a French Euro restaurant for some crepes and ice cream…that eased our very unsatisfied palates. Next day we woke up late and had some American burgers and headed to beach…we beach bummed till it got dark and grabbed a taxi to bring us back to Silom – it was a very quiet (restful) 2 hour car ride!

I didn’t do much in Thailand. I went to see some temples, saw the significant Buddhas in Bangkok and mostly indulged in thai massages at every chance. Bangkok is THE place to shop. There are tailors on the footpath sewing these fabulous dresses and putting them on the racks and passersby just grabbing them up at 200-300 Bakhts ($1 = 32 Bkts) each. But women there are like size 0 to -2! So, I didn’t end up buying anything. Just a lot of walking around and soaking in the culture. I couldn’t make much head or tails of the language with the exception of “Hello” and “Thank you”.

Sup and I did have a fun evening worth mentioning. It was a Tuesday night. We headed out to Sukhumvit to eat dinner at a very touristy thai restaurant called “Cabbages and Condoms”. It was an indoor/outdoor family restaurant wonderful ambience and dĂ©cor…very natural. What was charming and amusing was that…every so often you notice the lamps and lights and see that its entirely covered with condoms. We were seated at an outdoor table and our table top was all condoms. White condoms and red condoms forming a big heart! (yes, we have pics =) the food was very very mediocre thai but u go for the novelty of the place. Men are even handed condoms with their bills. After dinner we headed out to a club. It was club BED. Just like in NYC. Except this one was like a huge spaceship from the outside and inside was 3 levels. We seated ourselves on a cozy bed on the top floor. It was hip hop night so we chilled and enjoyed the music, crowd and eventually got up to bust a move. The place closed down about 2am. The drinks were great, ambience was fun. But be warned…it a lot of European men in the place and full of Thai women. These women don’t always join you for free…

I stayed there for a total of 12 days and it was the most relaxing and enjoyable stay. I have feeling I will be back in Thailand.

Friday, February 16, 2007

Thailand

In Thailand now with my darling friend- Supriya or Shon (shonc.blogspot.com)....Its been a fun first night here. A lot of wine and good conversation and general catching up on life. I am enjoying Bangkok so far! Walked through the red light district....very interesting...not much else to say! Will get a foot massage next wee and see if its all that it is cracked up to be! Heading to the beach for the weekend!!!!

Sunday, February 11, 2007

Dhaka

(i am not a historian---facts may be wrong--feel free to correct me!)

Its interesting being in Dhaka right now. I feel like I am in the middle of history in the making. The country is going through major changes. Bangladesh has been noted as the world’s most corrupt country. Recently an Anti Corruption Commission (or Coalition—have to check) or the ACC has been put into place. Elections were stopped to challenge the extreme the corruption taking place among politicians. An interim government is in place. All this taking place to meet the demands set forth in order to receive ongoing aid. What does it mean for general public? Well, as always, there are two sides. The good—persons making honest living from black money – they are being put out of business. That means all illegal operations are being annihilated. Illegal VoIP switches were all turned off (internet calling lines created to bypass the gov’t switchboard thus evading taxations) – the bad, its become difficult to make and receive international calls, hawkers on footpaths removed because of no licenses—which means pedestrians can actually walk on the sidewalk instead of dodging cars and being groped on crowded streets. Stores or structures literally being broken if they cannot produce a legal license, drivers being taken to jail if they can’t produce proper documentations –that’s lessened a bit of the congested traffic, even going house to house and breaking TVs if licenses for each TV and cable/dish line is not produced (when u buy a TV through legal means, you receive a license and have to renew it every year—taxes on everything!), and it goes on. Gallons of sweets were strewn on the streets when stores were found guilty of having less than sanitary conditions to make sweets or selling sweets that had spoiled. It goes on and on...in every sector of commercialism…produce to artificial food coloring to cement to asbestos…on and on. It’s a good direction but in the process and the rashness, some people who aren’t guilty are also being thrown in jail. Well, if not guilty they well be proved so in court…but a fair and just legal system is also to be desired in this young country. The ACC have plans to separate the bureaucratic branches but that’s a heavy task.

Bangladesh is a very young country. It is comparable to—say a young man of 15 that sees the world around him, sees wealth, fame and power and wants to have it now—rather than after he is has gone through education, worked hard and earned the wealth and power. That young man wants to bypass and just go straight for the goal. Bangladesh seems like that to me. It worked so hard to gain its independence—the only country in this world that fought a war to have the right to speak its own language—that it’s a shame that it has become known as the world’s most corrupt nation. It has the potential to have a very successful economy and wealth that can be evenly distributed. I just hope that the events occurring now can be driven in a positive direction. That eventually the country will be governed by politicians who are learned and virtuous rather than out for money and power.

A lil anecdote that an uncle passed on the other day:

A villager has come for the first time to the city, Dhaka. He gets on a rickshaw and asks the rickshawallah to take him to the Dhaka Bishobidaloy. The rickshawallah agrees and starts riding and goes all over Dhaka but can’t find the Dhaka Bishobidaloy. The villager is getting irritated and asks if he even knows where he is going. The rickshawallah finally admits that he doesn’t know where the Dhaka Bishobidaloy is. The villager than exclaims, “You don’t know where Dhaka University is!?” The rickshawallah laughs and cries out, “Why didn’t you tell me you wanted Dhaka University is? Its right here!”
(Bishobidaloy is Bangla for University)

My point? Its February. On 21st February every year since independence in 1971, we Bangladeshis, acknowledge the martyrs that sacrificed their lives for the right to speak and write our beautiful language, Bangla.* As a nation, we have become so carried away trying to imitate the West and become so terribly commercial that we have at times forgotten that we as a people had our own ideologies and philosophies to live by. That this land has been always inhabited by peaceful, open-minded, liberal and generous peoples and the land has equally been generous.** The country has produced Nobel Prize winners in Peace and Literature.*** So, I hope the course of events and actions taking place in our country leads us to a fair, just and peaceful way of existence.
*When the British left India, it divided the land. When it was divided, India was flanked by Pakistan on two sides. East Pakistan and West Pakistan. This was done to group together the primarily Islamic states. However, in East Pakistan area, the main language spoken was Urdu which followed the Arabic script. West Pakistan had its own written and spoken language for thousands of years, Bangla. The Pakistan government wanted all Pakistanis to speak Urdu but West Pakistan protested. Thus started the Language Movement. In world history, it is considered a Genocide. The Pakistanis came in and murdered thousands. Starting from the intellectuals of the country and the students. Ditches were filled with bodies piled high. It continued for many long months. To learn more, google “Bangladesh independence”.

**Our national song is Amar Sonar Bangla—our Golden Bangla—which is reference to the fields of abundant golden wheat. A land of plenty.

***Peace Prize: Prof. Yunnus, 2006 & Literature: Rabindronath Tagore -- google it!

Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Kolkata

After a fun trip through the heart of India I landed at the Howrah Station in Kolkata.

Forgot to mention...i got see very little scenary of the heart of India since the window panes were thick as anything to control the AC! But its basiaclly all the same...a lot of green palm and coconut trees, huts, naked kids and men and women going about daily work- like farming, etc...

The train pulls into the station about 3 hours late. As soon as the train stops, coolies jump on to collect bags. In my compartment, they let me go first. The coolie pulls out my suitcase and carries my art piece out and I follow. Its a hot day and the bright sun hurts my eyes when I step out onto the platform. The guys in my compartment had suggested I set the price for carrying my stuff before heading out of the station. I figure I have the advantage of knowing the language and will be able to bargain well. The guy doesn't speak bengali! They all speak a different dialect!! Ok, but i get the numbers--they pretty much sound the same in any language in Northern India. The guy says Rs.150, I scoff and look at him like he has gone mad and start looking around for a another coolie. I sugest Rs. 60, he goes on and on and I let him. He says Rs. 100. I say no, there are plenty of coolies around, let go of my things and i will find another--I am speaking in broken hindi and bengali. If he will do Rs. 70 then we have a deal. We agree on Rs. 80. Still high in my opinion but I started to feel bad. Its a heavy suitcase and stairs are involved! The coolie hoists the suitcase on his head and another coolie helps him get the painting on top. I decide to carry my own bagpack and off we went. Its a trip. The platform is full of passengers and coolies carrying bags and hawkers and armed security men. I think there were army supplies on the train. We quite literally weaved through the human traffic, ducking in some places to avoid having heads lopped off by a trunk or other cargo! We walked a good 5 mins then we came to the stairs. The coolie didn't skip a beat and climbed the staris up wihout a problem. I had instructed him to take me straight to the pre-paid taxi stand. Every big station has a pre-paid taxi stand. We came onto a collosoal terminal. Its about Grand Central station size. People were sleeping on top of bags or on the floor (pesuamaly waiting for trains) and others eating their breakfast. Chai wallas going around. Its was chaos. I followed my coolie to the gates that led outside. I had never been to Kolkata and was looking forward to seeing a lil bit of it on the 40 min transit to the airport. As I am about walk out the gate, a lackadisical gate keeper asks for ticket. I ignore and keep walking, which forces him to get up and come after me. He wanted my train ticket stub. I hand it over. Then he stops me and asks whats in package. I look at him like he is stupid or drunk.

"suitcase-y?" (in the suitcase?)
"Na, oop poery ki?" (what's on top?) i look at him, then the coolie, then the frame. Is this man for real?
"chobi." (photo) damn, these people are nosy! If its something that will get me in trouble, will I volunteer that information?? He lets me go after i give him a dirty look.

I have to mention that I was wearing J Crew Khaki pants, black long sleeved fitted t-shirt with wedge heels. I looked ferengi (foreginer-european) except that I was brown. As we left the gates, we were immeditaely surrounded by taxi drivers wanting to take me to my desired destination. From every side, and they spoke in broken english since I walked through them like I didn't see or hear them--and probably they way i was dressed. Some of them tried to force my ccoolie to go to their taxi but my coolie was good and he responded with, "I will go where Madam instructed me to go. Get out of my way". (The Madam part stung---usually I should be called Didi (sister) but being addressed as Madam aged me!)

The coolie takes me to the pre-paid taxi stand...I can't even see the counter cause there is such a huge crowd! But, coolie again, calls ahead, "let Madam through" (he is speaking in Hindi, btw) and the crowd parts like the Red Sea. I go to the counter and ask for a taxi to the airport. They charge an exorbinant fee, i pay it, and they hand me a slip ( I am the only female in this crowd. All other females are standing somewhere in the back as some male member or etc. gets the slip). Immidiately, I get hounded about what's my taxi # and if they can help (very aware of the groping that takes place and cheap feels they want to get). The coolie again comes out and asks me for the taxi #. I stare at the slip. Its in english and hindi but I have no clue where the Taxi # is located. I push it in front of the coolie..but he can't read. So, one of the hounders takes a hold and announces the taxi #. The coolie starts calling it out and walks into the parking lot. I finally look at the parking lot. I wish i was a photographer. Its was a sea of yellow ambassors! I didn't even realize Ambassodors still existed. I felt like it was a scene out of the 1920s! The driver for my Taxi # yells out to the coolie and we follow him into the middle of the hive. I am cautious cause my driver looks a little bit of the angry, hot headed sort. He was shouting to a another driver half the way. So, we get to the car and the coolie unloads. I end up giving him Rs.100 cause that was a lot of work and Rs. 100 is nothing to me but a lot to him. I climb into the back seat. Damn friggin cool! I can't describe, you just have to see the indside of a dilipadted old amabassdor!

The driver starts to pull out of the lot and the car next to him does as well. it barely scratches our taxi. Thats it! The driver is off his rockers! He starts yelling and screaming, jumps out of the car and starts puling the other driver out of the car by his collar. The driver is screaming and fighting back. Other taxi drivers stop and try to stop the fight. I look away and sigh. Nothing I can do. i debate whether to leave, but what about my baggage? He will probably break my painting if I go to the counter and ask for another driver. As i am looking out, 3 women walk by looking pretty scared and nervous. They could have been my aunts. I am not scared, just really irritated. Finally, the driver gets in. I don't say anything, just stare out the window as he pulls out of the humongous Howrah station. It pulls out onto road and i look back...its basically 1.5 times the size of 30th Street station in Philly and there is 2 of them. The old station and the new station.

The taxi drives through a market place. Its full of hawkers selling breakfast foods. I am so very tempted to stop the driver so I can pick up the yummy looking street foods, then i debate, i really don't want to chance getting sick. I look the other way. The foot path is crowded with hand bags and luggage. I suppose appropriate, being across the street from the station.

We go through a tiny underpass and i am greeted with delightful sight of men squatting along the open drains having their morning piss n'shit fest. Very little is left to the imagination! I ask the driver how long it will take and he informs me it'll take 45mins if no traffic. Of course, he asks, where I am going. Upon emabrking on a journey to South Asia, leave the idea of privacy at your western doorstep! After little chit chat, I sit back to take in the sights. Greeted with large bus stops and larger billboards adverting modile phone deals and milk. I look on pensively as a small mother with her tiny child and a tall lanky man try to cross the very busy street. The city is not much different from my native Dhaka. Dusty, busy, hawkers and rickshaws (the bicycle ones). A difference is--rickshaws in Kolkata have a square top but ones in Dhaka are rounded. Odd.

It looked like we beat the morning rush hour traffic. It wasn't much of waiting around in stand still traffic. I watched as men (presumably street kids or homeless) bathe at bathing station around the temples. Again, no privacy. I watch as a young man in his chudis (underwear) stands next to my taxi and soaps himself all over before jumping in with the other men under the running faucet. Temples were holding morning pujas so, ringing bells were heard throughout. Laughter of school children walking in groups were mixed in with hawkers calling out their fares...mostly vegetables. I looked up and wires ran criss cross all over, some hanging dangerously above the passerbys on the streets. People were just going about their daily routine business. It just looked like a very crowded busy city. We started driving through a nicer part of town...cause I noticed an HSBC bank---that wouldn't be located in a ghetto! The city started to look less crowded and brighter--the newness of buildings recently built, fresh coats of paint and the thinning crowd of hawkers on the footpaths. Before Iknew it, we had pulled into the airport.

Sunday, January 28, 2007

Howrah Express to Kolkata

I really wish I had a digi cam so I could upload photos. Truth is- I haven’t taken much pictures at all on this trip. But regardless, it would have been nice to upload a few images. My darling friend, the talented aspiring photographer, is now posted in Thailand through her job. She has created a blog and will post her pics up on it. If you love photography and want to know about her adventures in Thailand, check out: shonc.blogspot.com. I will be joining her soon =)

I left Bangalore on Mon, Jan 15 at 7:30pm on the Howrah Express train to Kolkata. The Indian railway system really needs it own "Dummies" book! You cannot just walk into a station and expect to leave with a ticket. You have to either put in a booking or a reservation. Confirmation is not guaranteed. Its complicated…I don’t quite get it yet myself. Anyway, I went Sunday at 1PM to the Yeshyampur station to get tix in to AC sleeper class. At the counter the guy tells me that I will #6 on a waiting list for Mondays train. I quickly tell him its an emergency and I have to catch a flight in Kolkata on Wed afternoon. So, the he puts me on a Tatkal waiting list and that puts me at # 2 on a 3 tier AC sleeper class. Tatkal means—I learned later—an emergency. Each train has a particular # of berths reserved for emergencies. On Monday at 2pm my ticket was confirmed. If it didn’t get confirmed, I would have to go back and cancel my ticket for Rs. 20 and re-book or get 80% refund. Luckily, I didn’t have to worry about all that. Why am I taking a 40 hr train instead of a 1 hr flight to Kolkata? It’s the curse of a limited budget and no constraints on my time. A flight was going to cost me Rs. 6,000 (~$135) and the train cost me Rs. 1,700 (~$40). I had no appointments to keep and traveling through Madhya Pradesh and Orissa on the train seemed like a fun idea. It was also AC and a sleeper car, so it should be pretty comfortable as long as I am not stuck with a crying baby next to me!

Dada helped me pack my bags…I couldn’t fit all my random purchases into my small suitcase so I had a total of 4 items to carry. My over packed suitcase, over packed back pack, 3X2 ft wooden art piece and a handbag of access stuff. So much for being a bohemian traveler!! We get to the station and ladies and gentelmen, we were packed like sardines! There is no separate baggae car, everything you have goes in your compartment and you share that compartment with 5 other folks. I ofcourse have the most # of bags. By the time we had gotten there, all the space under the berths were filled to capacity with small suitcases. Dada decided that I deserved to have my space and pulled out two bags from under the space that was designated to me and Nishu stuffed my suitcase is somehow. The bagpack, art and access bag all shared my seat on the berth. Cozy, very cozy!

The people I shared the berth with: a young woman who worked as a bartender at the Hotel Oberoi and grew up in Darjeeling. We spoke about drinks, vacationing in Darjleeing and Sikim and about the trials and tribulation of being a female traveler (bathroom & smoking issues). She sat across from me, we had the window seat and the bottom berth to sleep in. Next to me was a man from Assam who worked as a marketing/sales person for an incense and scent firm in Bangalore. He was travelling for work. We didn't speak much but was a good guy. Gave me two cigs to share with the other woman and informed that it was illigal to smoke in Madhya pradesh. You would be immidiately ticketed and fined or taken to jail. No smokes are sold at any of the stations. Across from him sat a Konkini guy from Bangaore also a marketting manager. Both these guys were traveling for work. They had the middle berths to sleep in. The last two guys were college buddies on their way to Sikim for vacation. they were fun and clowinsh. They slept a lot and had the top most bunk. Oh, they all assumed i was a an artist and writer since i had the big piece with me and whenever i was really bored i would take out my sketchpad i would draw or write!

Food is not a probem on the train. They have excellent catering service. Waiters walk by every 3 mins selling snacks, chips, sodas, water and magazines. About 3 hrs before mealtime a waiter will come by to take your meal order. They serve chicken and egg biryanis, vegetable and chicken fried rice, chicken roast, curries, dal, rice, chapatti...relatively extensive menu. it tastes good and pretty hygenic, I didn't get sick! Since it was 2nd class, even the bathrooms were clean which was a relief. Last time I travelled on the train, the bathroom was so horrible I waited till we reached our hotel to go!

The last night of our train ride was fun, the Konkini guy was getting off at a station before the rest of us so we all stayed up to kep him company. Our compartment became the place of adda (gathering). all the men that couldn't sleep gathered in our compartment and told jokes all night long and stories that had us in stictches. interesting thing was, no one asked each others names, just professional designation and what was the purpose of trip. It was kind of sad to say bye to them all at the end of the journey. Everyone spoke in english cause i am sure within the group there were 5 diff languges--english and hindi was the common language.

One piece of advice i will leave here...when booking, ask for the topmost bunk. Otherwise, you are stuck waking up at 6am and sitting the whole time. That is if you are being nice to your neighbors that dn't want to lay down the whole trip!

Sunday, January 14, 2007

What is...

...Love?

Where do you find it?

Or does it find you?

Or is it created into a manifestation?

Is it eternal? or a small period?

If you have any answers to these questions...indulge me!

Last day in India

Today is my last day in India. I did my shopping and spent a small fortune on saris and trinkets...and of course food and booze. Nothing really exciting to add or comment on. I never went to the dance classes but did jog as regularly possible for me (every other day.). I didn't go out much other than to shop with didi or party w/ the boys. I cut my trip short and heading to Dhaka to see my family. I enjoyed my time here but I miss my mommy (she is in Dhaka now).

Tuesday, January 9, 2007

Mischeif by ShonC


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Chalk Powder and Fevicol

I was making clay jewelry and trinkets for a little bit but lack of a stable home, I put away everything in storage. Learned today that chalk powder and fevicol mixed with water can be a great medium to create pieces too! Much easier then working and firing clay…

And to think I have jars full of both sitting around and it just never struck me!

I am getting HUGE!!!

All this rich foods and inertia has added on the pounds! I was already at my heaviest before I reached India…and now I must be past my tipping point!

I went to the Institute today and told them I would start classes…the very esteemed Maya Didi (my kathak guru’s guru) pointed out that she failed to recognize me…reason…I had put on a lot of weight! Yes, I know this and acknowledge this fact!

I woke up at 6am and went to yoga and tomorrow I am waking up at 7am to go running at the Sankey tank…Park around a man made lake close by.

Mon / Wed / Fri

6am – 7am Yoga with Didi and Dada and their friends

Mon – Fri

7:00a– 8:00a Jogging at the Park w/ Nishu

4:30p-5:30p Dance class (maybe-don’t really feel much like it)

Rich foods only on Sundays!

My First major piece of Art!!

The other day I went to a crafts exhibition and my goodness, the place was filled with wonderful knickknacks to decorate your home with! I wish I was wealthy so I could send trunk loads of stuff back to decorate my own non-existent home!

I am not by any means an impulse buyer. But, I saw this piece and all reasoning went out the door and I had to have it! The piece is about 3ft tall and 2 ft wide and entirely made of wood. Its so gorgeous! It looks like a painting – a delicate woman reaching up to pluck flowers from a tree and placing them in her pallu which leaves her chest uncovered (she is wearing a sari blouse!) – so sensual and feminine. The art is that whole thing is made with different colors and types of woods placed together to create this image. Its 3D and each piece individually carved and fitted. Like her face has to two types of wood – one light and other dark for shadows and hair of a darker wood. I will take a pic and place soon to truly appreciate it!

Problem: how do I transport it to Dhaka then to NY w/o spending a small fortune?!

Hotel Moonlight

Its not some shady motel I checked into! It’s actually an awesome Hole in the Wall restaurant in Bangalore that serves the best ‘muslim’ fare. Grilled, roasted chicken…Rows of whole bright red hens are grilled in a rotisserie and legs of lamb just spinning on open flames and dripping with its own fat.

I wanted to take the family out to dinner instead we picked up food at Hotel Moonlight. One whole juicy roasted hen, 4 aromatic chicken biryanis, 2 mouth-watering chicken curries and 5 moist and flaky coin parothas (they are about double the size of a silver dollar). Cost of whole meal: Rs. 350. ($1 = Rs. 44). You do the math!

Desert: Sweet Paans! Yum!

Paan: crushed betel nuts and stuff I don’t know names of all wrapped inside a betel leaf.

Twister & Doctor’s Rx

Sunday, woke up at 1PM after getting back from the pub at the unholy hour of 5AM. Luckily, no hangover. Had very yummy drink: Twister.

What is a Twister?

Shot of vodka
Lime juice – fresh squeezed
Sprite or 7-Up
Splash of cranberry juice

Sounds good, right? For my Luvlies that are abstaining from Alcohol this year—I think it would make a pretty good virgin drink too!

Another good drink—Doctor’s Rx

Learnt it from a friend in NYC but this is what it is:

Warm water
Honey
Mixed with Brandy

Its actually very tasty.

Also learned—eating bananas is a great help with hangovers. Also helps, LOTS of water before passing out! And of course, cold pizza. Dominoes pizza here is so good! The cheese is different and gives it a whole diff flavor!

India has McDonalds (no beef though), KFC, Pizza Hut and Dominoes (guaranteed delivery in 30 mins!) Waiting to see if a Starbucks, Krispy Kreme & Dunkin’Donuts pop up!!

Monday, January 8, 2007

Day to Day in Bangalore

Back in Malleswaram.

I have slept so much over the past few days…its as if all the sleep I was deprived of over the last couple of months finally caught up! I go to sleep at 9PM and wake up at noon!

Didi does not disappoint. She makes the most delicious breakfasts. Its dosas one day, dodaks the next (yummy dosa like variant) or paan pallay (ground rice and ground coconut mixed with water and cooked on a tawa like a dosa eaten with jaggery syrup). And of course the eternal supply of tea =D

One afternoon, I went with didi and her cousin to a restaurant called Neels (Blue). Such a cute place. A high end restaurant that’s set up with 4-5 open bungalows, of course everything is blue. It was so pretty ‘cause the paths had coconut trees and wherever you sit you get great view of the clear Bangalore sky. It doesn’t rain here…its always pleasant! Sunny and warm in day and cool and breezy in the evening. After the buffet lunch and gulab jamuns and ice cream we headed to the aunty’s house for some tea. The aunty’s house was a sight to see! The entrance gates were made of pine wood painted bright red with flowers and greens overflowing. You enter up a short series of steps (lots of wonderful plants hovering) and enter an open architecture. It’s a 3 story house and you can see every floor from the foyer. The furniture was handmade and personally designed with dark mahogany wood. The space was uncluttered, minimalist and clean. So classic...i fell in love with it. Aunty was such a sweet women. She called me sweetie and dear the entire afternoon and we talked about her daughter who is studying at Rutgers! Of all places!! After some more pleasant conversations about best places for saris, coolest place to party for New Years and tea we headed back to Didi’s house.

That evening I went with didi for a visit with an aunt and uncle of hers. The uncle was 80 something and a darling of a man. And the aunty was a perfect host. She showed me around their modest 2 BR flat and I sat down and struck up fun conversation with uncle. We touched arts, social life and politics and by the end of the evening he had declared I was very intelligent and that he had completely fallen in love with me! So sweet – I couldn’t stop laughing! I could see the uncle in his younger days – an intelligent, flirtatious, powerful man that loved to socialize and am sure was quite the ladies man!

The beauty of Bangalore peoples is that 1- everyone (young and old) speaks perfect English and 2- everyone (young and old) is quite modern, progressive and uninhibited.

We came home and had a delicious meal of fish curry and I passed out.

The next day, I stayed in bed till noon and then just put-putted around the house. Napping, watching movies, eating and doing the soduku. I was enjoying down-time and no responsibilities.

Saturday, I woke up at a more decent hour. Navin had the day off and Nishu had nothing planned for the day. So we headed out to lunch at a place called Empire. It’s a chill joint serving roasts, kababs and parothas. Oh! The roast was soo dang good! A warm red color, perfectly charred and so juicy. The kerala paratha was fluffy and sopped it up with some lamb curry buried in coconut and curry leaves. After the meal, I needed something sweet so we headed to an ice cram parlor. I had vanilla ice creams with caramel and cashews. It wasn’t very good at all…when in India, stick to Indian food!

After the ice cream we went to pick up Navin’s fiancĂ© and I got to meet with her parents as well. Her mother was gorgeous! A sight to behold. Fair, petite, slim, proper with a big maroon bindi on her forehead. She fed us some homemade flan—my fav dessert—it was so light! Her father was an army brigadier (dark, tall with sharp features), her mother used to teach French and she was a ranked tennis player! Navin was a ranked badminton player—what a perfect match! She was so sweet and bubbly I could have eaten her up!

Later- like 1am that night after unsuccessful attempts at trying to watch a DVD, we headed out to a pub. Bangalore has a strict curfew of 10pm and no bars open past 11 and no dancing clubs allowed. But, Navin’s friend owned a restaurant where he served liquor and food till 4am. After driving through a deserted city (during the day, the city is famous for horrendous traffic) we arrive at an unlit street. We walk through a dark alley, enter through the back into a kitchen and then enter the restaurant. It was like being at Cheers! Everyone in the place knew one another!

Friday, January 5, 2007

Goa Part 4 - the drive back

Early on the morning of the 4th we headed back to Bangalore. This time Navin's friend and wife were going to drive us back in a very spacious car. We stopped for breakfast at a Dhabba place...a road side, travellers joint. I had a masala dosa. Ah...the coconut chutney that came with it was so good. I usually don't like sambar, but i licked the sambar clean too!hit the spot with some tea and we were all net to go. I climbed into the last seat and cozied myself in...again...i sleep in moving vehicles!

At about 2PM we pull into another seaside town for lunch. We ordered some cool beers and a nice helping of food. Among them some masala crabs. I usually don't like crabs but i sucked these suckers clean. It was oniony, coriander, tomato and chili...Ooof...so finger licking good! Well satisfied and carefully emptied bladder, we climbed into the car again. I felt rude that I wasn't making so much conversation but heck they all spoke in Kanada which I didn't understand and I was too content sleeping in the back! At baout 6PM...my bladder cried to be relived! Thankfully, so did everyone else's! So, Shoba and i go off into the woods to mark our territory.I pick a busy area with thick cobwebs all around--i only noticed after i squatted! Just prayed a wild dog wouldn't come by or get bit in the nether regions by some bugs!

We take a rest and climb back into car. Karnataka is a lot of hills and mountains so a lot of winding roads going up and then back down...I was getting dizzy!!

Throughout the drive I kept having such vivid dreams that I made a New Years' resolution to write a book this year! It may be an Erotica but my dreams are alot more entertaining than the movies I watch!

I slept the entire 12 hour journey. Back in NY I can't sleep and here I can't seem to stay awake! I think I am being labeled as The New York Sleeping Beauty!

We came back to Pandurangashram to Didi's food. She had left some Pork curry out for us to feast on at 1am...I don't like pork usually but this curry...juicy, spicy, cumin flavored and oh so lip smacking good. Even the pieces of fat...rather chunks of fat...yummmmmmy!

Goa Part 3 - the best fried fish ever

Not much else or anything exciting to write about in Goa. I spent most of the time sleeping, eating, sun bathing and reading. Much to the dismay of my friends--who were excited to have a New York Party girl among them!

I can't party like I used to--I kept falling asleep at any party we went to! Didn't drink a whole lot either. Just spent a lot of alone time on the beach reflecting on my past year and what I plan to do for the future year.

Rang in the New Year at a Vanilla lounge to awesome music and random group of strangers. Lots of awesome fireworks and sparklers. I missed my friends dearly. I called my brother, mom, friends and everyone else just to hear familiar voices. Next morning I called my family in Dhaka to wish Eid Mubarak. I missed them a lot too and wish could have been there to celebrate.

On the 3rd, the guys I was with decide to visit their family temples. Mangeshi and the ShantaDurga. It was an hours ride from Candolim. Hoped on back of the bikes and the 6 of us headed off. I was really happy to have made the trip...It was so peaceful. Even made my insides still for a lil bit.

We had lunch at a lil canteen by the side of the temple. We ordered non-veg--which means fish only in this case. It came with 2 chapattis, a kokam curry (red juicy liquid thats spicy), some veggeis, fish dal and 2 fried small fish. We also ordered sides of fried sear fish. My Goodness------it was THE BEST meal!! I can still taste the dal and rice and fish! I ate no much I thought I would explode!! It was a home cooked meal. The aunty was sitting and cooking fresh food for us...YUM Yum yum!! I think the guys reading this will add their own comment so check it out in the bottom!

Then we rode off to the Shanta Durga Temple. Again, so beautiful and serene. I can see why people sit in the temple all day. It brings about a certain calmness and feel rejuvenated and ready to face the hard cold world again. Outside the temple, the guys stopped to have a special drink. It was an interesting concoction. It was soda in a glass bottle with a marble inside the neck and when the shop keeper popped the cork it made an awesome "POP...fizzzzzzzzzz" sound! I felt like a kid again and wanted to hear it over and over again! He then mixed fresh lime juice, salt and chat masala to the mix. Ahhhh...such a tasty refreshing drink! Going to try and make it at home some day!!

We headed back to Candolim and started to get ready for our last day at Goa. Which was a lot of hopping around. It was kind of cool...we started at a place called 9 Bar...a Huge outdoor pit only playing trance music. Everyone was High and on something or the other. Bongs were being passed around. I was content with my Kingfisher beer and cigarettes under a coconut tree watching the sexy young shirtless men jumping up and down!

Then we headed to Zanzibar-- a really rockin shack on the beach. I was again content with my Bacardi Breezer, cigarettes and added the Greek Chicken kabobs being grilled on the beach. Moist,juicy and full of flavor! So good! Had a nice helping of it! Then chilled on a chair between two shacks and enjoyed the pulsating beats, the white surf hitting the sand and the full moon above. Ah! Perfect! I dozed off and three of us decided to head home...but not before I had shwarma sandwich at the next shack we passed!!

Goa Part 2

A perfect vacation equals lots of sleep, lots of good food, and lots of good….well for this trip I will say - reading!

Candolim looks a lot like Miami in structure…meaning one long main road and along the strip are hotels, spas, restaurants, bars, street vendors, etc…just everything is very rustic and folksy rather than 1920s Art Deco of Miami. The cuisines of the restaurants are varied as the tourist vacationing in the spot. You have traditional Goan food, Indian, Chinese, German, Italian…you name it, they will have it. Pork is one thing that’s plentiful in Goa and cooked in every possible fashion. According to the tourist and local lingo, if you visit Goa more than three times, you are on your way to becoming a Goan!

The next morning I finally wake up at 7:00 AM and kiss the sun as it rises. Since all my friends had partied the night before, instead of disturbing my slumber, they had all gone ahead and spent the night at the apartment and left me behind at the hotel. I didn’t mind the least bit! I woke up, washed off all the oil from the massage the day before and put on a bathing suit and headed off to the beach. It was still a little cool as the sun was coming up. The shore line was full of early morning joggers and couples taking a morning walk. I decided to walk a bit along the shore and as the sun started to get warmer the beach side shacks had opened up and layout the lounge chairs, I decided to take a break and sun bathe. It was blissful. I took a wade in the cool water and lay down in the chair with my book to keep me company. As the waves crashed it brought with it some wisps of cool breezes. It was absolutely perfect.

I had picked up a random book in Bangalore from a street vendor. The title had drawn me The Company of Women by Khushwant Singh. I sat in the sun and read and listened to the waves crashing.

It was soon almost noon and the other friends had started to wake up. One of them came out to the beach hunting me. We went back to the room and transferred all our bags to the apartment. It was such an adorable place! Thank goodness it was air-conditioned!

Goa can get very crowded and transporting from one place to next can become challenging...so we rented 3 motorcycles. Best investment ever! I LOVE riding on bikes and have been trying to learn how to ride since I was 15. but fear of breaking my dancing legs if i fell has kept me from it. This time I am determined to ride one. Hopefully get one in next couple of years too.

So after, we moved and settled in, we started with the drinking. Then headed to the beach for sun, surf, massage and grub. Had an awesome time on the beach. A lady sitting behind us started scolding her sun for like10 min and everyone around got really quite. It was a British women with an adopted thai boy of about 4 years. The poor kid was being harassed by the mother to say sorry to another boy and lil boy kept saying sorry to his mom. The mother would not let up. I hate it when children are mentally abused like that. I couldn't take it another minute and disrupted her by sitting infront of them and saying "can I be of any help?" The mother snapped to mind my own business, rightly so. So I left and went back to my chair. Now, her anger was directed at me and she was yelling behind my back. I didn't care, I went on eating and drinking. At least, the little boy got a rest from the woman. Thankfully, she left soon after and we continued to have a good time.

We somehow managed to teeter back to the room and get dressed for a night of partying. These guys love to party. So party we did! The best was the motorocycle rides!The cool wind and clear skies and fresh (well dusty) air...nothing quite like it!